Content guide
What to include in a Preserve
A Preserve is a collection of stories, memories, photos, and messages from the people who know someone best. You don't need every item on this list. What matters most is honesty, specificity, and love. Use this as a menu, not a checklist.
Written reflections
Words are the backbone of most Preserves. A few heartfelt paragraphs often mean more than a long essay.
- A specific memory that captures who the person is
- A thank-you for something they did that seemed small to them
- What you learned from them and how you use it
- What you would want them to know if you only had one sentence
Photos and videos
Visuals anchor stories in time. They don't need to be professional — candid shots are often the most powerful.
- Photos from different decades of their life
- Images that show them in their element: teaching, cooking, building, laughing
- Short video clips from family events or everyday moments
- A current group photo of the people contributing to the Preserve
Voice and audio
Hearing someone's voice carries emotion that text cannot. Audio is one of the most treasured parts of a Preserve.
- Voice memos answering one of the prompt questions
- A group recording of people saying thank you together
- Old voicemails or recordings you already have
- A song that reminds contributors of the person
Stories with specifics
The best Preserves are built from concrete details, not general compliments. A single specific story is worth more than a paragraph of adjectives.
- The time they showed up when they didn't have to
- A habit, phrase, or ritual that defines them
- A failure they turned into a lesson
- Something they made, fixed, or gave away
Lessons and values
What did this person stand for? What did they pass on? This section gives the Preserve depth and permanence.
- A principle they lived by, even quietly
- A piece of advice that changed your path
- A value they embodied: fairness, patience, courage, humor
- How you hope to carry their example forward
A clear through-line
Great Preserves aren't random collections. They tell a story about who this person is and why they matter.
- Choose two or three themes that repeat across contributions
- Open with a strong, specific memory or quote
- Build toward a final message of gratitude
- Let the person's own words appear if you have them
Don't just read about it. Start.
Preserve helps you collect the stories, voice, and lessons of the people who shape your life — whether they're still with you or not.
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